WRITING — Lara Blair Irwin

6 Ways to Facilitate The Synchronous Field

Lara Blair IrwinFebruary 25, 2026SomaField, nervous system literacy, synchronous field, artistry, psychoeducation, experiential and somaticComment

Overprocessing Ruins Relationships So Try Self Resolving Instead

Lara Blair IrwinFebruary 18, 2026SomaField, couples work, attachment awareness, nervous system literacyComment

Relationships Are Hard, But How Hard is Too Hard? Assessing Workability.

Lara Blair IrwinFebruary 11, 2026SomaField, couples work, psychoeducationComment

How to do Somatic Work that Actually Makes Change

Lara Blair IrwinFebruary 4, 2026SomaField, synchronous field, artistry, experiential and somaticComment

What to Do When Your Client is in the Wrong Relationship

Lara Blair IrwinJanuary 28, 2026SomaField, client centered, couples workComment

What Clients Need in Dark Political Times

Lara Blair IrwinJanuary 21, 2026SomaField, socio-cultural attunementComment

How to Keep Long-Term Work from Going Flat

Lara Blair IrwinJanuary 14, 2026SomaField, client centered, artistryComment

A Non-Pathologizing Approach to Attachment

Lara Blair IrwinDecember 31, 2025SomaField, psychoeducation, attachment awarenessComment

Holidays. Family. Otherwise Known as Boundary Season.

Lara Blair IrwinDecember 24, 2025SomaField, psychoeducationComment

Why I'm 🚫 About "Masculine/Feminine Dynamics" or "Polarity Work"

Lara Blair IrwinDecember 17, 2025SomaField, couples work, socio-cultural attunementComment

Betrayal Repair Work Phase 4/4: The Deeper Work (How'd We Get Here?)

Lara Blair IrwinDecember 10, 2025SomaField, artistry, nervous system literacy, couples work, psychoeducationComment

Betrayal Repair Work Phase 3/4: Forgiveness/Letting Go/Moving Forward

Lara Blair IrwinDecember 3, 2025SomaField, artistry, nervous system literacy, couples work, psychoeducationComment

Betrayal Repair Work Phase 2/4: The Amends Process

Lara Blair IrwinNovember 26, 2025SomaField, artistry, nervous system literacy, couples work, psychoeducationComment

Betrayal Repair Work Phase 1/4: The Apology

Lara Blair IrwinNovember 19, 2025SomaField, artistry, nervous system literacy, couples work, psychoeducationComment

How To Go Parasympathetic

Lara Blair IrwinNovember 12, 2025SomaField, artistry, nervous system literacy, experiential and somaticComment

Therapists + Coaches Need to Be in Therapy

Lara Blair IrwinNovember 5, 2025SomaField, client centered, artistry, nervous system literacy, attachment awareness, socio-cultural attunement, experiential and somaticComment

Somatic Work Alone is Too Small for Me

Lara Blair IrwinOctober 29, 2025SomaField, client centered, artistry, experiential and somaticComment

REAL > Reserved

Lara Blair IrwinOctober 22, 2025SomaField, nervous system literacy, professional boundaries, client centered, socio-cultural attunement, attachment awareness, synchronous field, psychoeducation, artistry, experiential and somaticComment

What the Research Says

Lara Blair IrwinOctober 15, 2025SomaField, attachment awarenessComment

Pathological Empathy---It's Not Your Job to Feel Everything for Your Clients

Lara Blair IrwinOctober 13, 2025SomaField, nervous system literacy, professional boundariesComment